WOW! The average fan and pundit are focusing on the result of one game. That is why they are average fans and merely pundits.
Ange's expectation is his team plays a high-press, and don't stop until the final whistle. If he sends the message to sit back after experiencing a little adversity, he's set a precedent that he doesn't believe in his own philosophy, and he's given the player's an excuse to do it again when they want. If he did that, Spurs season is done, his career is done, and Spurs are looking for another manager for 2024/25.
Ange is playing the long game. He's playing for this season, and next season, and the season after that. Not for merely 3points on a Monday night.
He has removed any doubt and set the expectation that no matter what, they keep pressing high, they keep running, they don't merely sit back and wait to accept their fate. You need to walk away with your tail between your legs after some battles in order to win the war.
If some fans don't have the balls to stick this through with discipline and courage, then perhaps West Ham is the team for them.