Guess you are right, theres preseason games in these 'fan' countries. Forgot those for a second. So they do get something for following the club from that far.That's what pre-season games are for.
This isn't the NFL, it's not a franchise sport, it's still inherently local football.
I'm one of those fans from another country and I loved when Spurs came to Australia twice, but there seems something inherently wrong with playing competitive league games outside the country.
Either I wouldnt mind where they held 1 match a season, but I can understand why people would get whiny if it did happen.