100% agree. I'm not so blinded by fandom (*cough* unlike Bin Dippers *cough*) that I don't see Dele diving when he definitely does. Like you, it also makes me cringe, but the instances where it's far more grey-area or he does actually get fouled do make me defensive of him.I love Dele,love his cheekiness etc ,but...
I do cringe when he hits the deck at times.Though contrary to what Liverpool fans,West ham fans and much of the media say, he isn't the only guilty party , nor IMHO, the worst offender.
Alas, I think Dele is getting the brunt of a football media who are quite spiteful towards Spurs for being the imposters ruining their usual top 4. They fucking wish that Liverpool were the most laudable team, but when that's not the case (organic development, new stadium, etc) they have to dig shit like this up to paint us as the bad guys.
Dier's interview with Ben Pearce hopefully points towards a professional/friends/family environment where Dele doesn't get too affected by the narrative the media has created.
I wonder if this could actually help us create a healthier version of that 'siege mentality' that Mourinho has instilled in his winning sides.